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Pascale Joelle Fortin-Daigle

Hello Gender
New-Brunswick, Canada

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wonder what the heck is wrong with you? And why don’t you feel like a boy or a girl like society wants you to?If you have, you are not alone. In fact, I was just like you. I was lost – I felt like I didn’t belong anywhere. I was trying to fit in the norm society wanted for a girl. But that wasn’t me. I wasn’t happy with myself. One afternoon, sitting on the side of my bed, I even considered taking my life. Holding the tie with both hands, I lifted my head. Starring at me was the picture of my late grandfather. That’s when something switched inside of me. I wasn’t ready to join him.

I started diving deep into understanding the world of LGBTQ+. I read books about it, I watched YouTube videos and I followed trans influencers. I gathered as much information as I could. I discovered others that felt just like me. I started exploring different ways of portraying how I felt inside through my clothes. I was gaining confidence in myself like never before!

Society has been telling us for way too long there is only 2 genders: you’re a boy, or you’re a girl. I’m here to tell you that our ancestors got it completely wrong! I am a living proof that gender is a spectrum – it’s this fluid bubble that goes from boy to girl to no gender to all! I identify as genderfluid – which means exactly what it says: I don’t have a fix gender. I believe everyone should be able to be their authentic self without fear or doubt. I even laid out a course to make it easier for you - and let me mentor you through your journey to self discovery!

It took me well over 20 years to put the pieces of my puzzle together. Are you going to wait that long? Or are you going to allow yourself to be free and finally feel like you belong?

My goal is to help parents of non binary and/or gender questioning teens better understand what it means to be trans by providing answers and comfort while lifting the weight of education off their child’s shoulders

As a non-binary trans* person myself, I have the tools and understanding to help you create the life you imagine and get a renewed sense of self.